Confusion

(Pro 27:6 KJV)  Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

How do you tell the difference between a “friend” (157) and an “enemy” (8130)?  You evidently can’t tell by their obvious actions.  We are usually very easily deceived by outward demonstrations of love or loyalty.  I think that is a mistake.  I have had other married couples held up as an example because of the words and non-verbal actions they displayed.  In time I was vindicated in my reluctance because often those couples have ended up in divorce.  All the cute, romantic behaviors didn’t go very deep.

So?  We need to look deeper.  That can’t be rushed.  It takes effort.  It will not be popular.  It still needs to be done.  Pay special attention when people don’t think they are being observed.